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Relationship Building: The Heart of International Exchanges

Posted on Thursday, February 18th, 2016 at 9:21 pm.

Darra Klein (right), and her lifelong friend, David Čeljuska (center) attending Baltimore’s annual Slovak festival in 2001 with another friend.

Darra Klein (right), and her lifelong friend, David Čeljuska (center) attending Baltimore’s annual Slovak festival in 2001 with another friend.

“International exchanges – especially those for young people taking the first steps of their professional lives – are strong and life changing experiences. It’s important to keep the international connections you make during an exchange alive because they have a powerful impact on your life, as well as others. Let’s face it, at the heart of it, international exchanges are about the relationships you make and maintain.”

This is one of the messages that I emphasized during my keynote address at the 69th annual International Association for the Exchange of Students for Technical Experience (IAESTE) Conference in Prague. IAESTE is an independent, non-profit, and non-political student exchange organization that provides students pursuing technical degrees (primarily science, engineering and the applied arts) with paid, course-related, training abroad.

Robin Lerner speaks at the 69th annual IAESTE Conference in Prague.

Robin Lerner speaks at the 69th annual IAESTE Conference in Prague.

While IAESTE internships aim to build participants’ professional skills, the cultural component – bringing people together and fostering intercultural learning and understanding – is just as essential. To demonstrate this point, I’d like to share a story about the great friendship that developed between my colleague, Darra Klein, and her lifelong friend, David Čeljuska, as the result of an IAESTE international exchange. Here’s their story:

In 2001 David was an IAESTE Trainee in the U.S. through the Exchange Visitor Program. David is Slovak and now lives in the Czech Republic.  David was very young when he came to the United States for his yearlong exchange program, not just in age, but in terms of life experience.  He was far from home, and he experienced some culture shock as he tried to navigate his new life in the United States.

David meets with the staff of AIPT, now Cultural Vistas, which administers the IAESTE international exchange.

David meets with the staff of AIPT, now Cultural Vistas, which administers the IAESTE international exchange.

When he met Darra, they became fast friends, so much so that David came home with Darra to visit her family for weekends and holidays. They attended the annual Cherry Blossom festival in Washington, D.C. and visited Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, one of the schools David was considering for his master’s degree program. They even attended a Slovak festival in Baltimore, Maryland, where Darra learned more about Slovak culture and heritage.

Darra also went to visit David and his family in Eastern Slovakia, where she experienced the life of a local, went on a road trip to Poland, and even visited an English class at the elementary school where David’s mom is the principal. Darra spoke to the class in English and gave a short presentation about the United States. Darra has been to Prague numerous times to visit David, most recently in 2013 for his wedding.

If it were not for IAESTE, Darra and David would have never formed this amazing friendship and had the rich cultural experiences it afforded them. Darra says, “I’m sure I never would have visited Eastern Slovakia were it not for David!” Thanks to the strong relationship they built, David and Darra will continue to take part in intercultural learning and have culturally enriching experiences.

Today, I challenge you to serve as a cultural ambassador in your local community by bringing people together and fostering intercultural learning and understanding. See for yourself. The positive results are endless.

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About Rebecca Pasini

Deputy Assistant Secretary for Private Sector Exchange

Rebecca Pasini

Rebecca A. Pasini joined the Bureau of Educational and Cultural Affairs as the Deputy Assistant Secretary for Private Sector Exchanges in July 2023. A career member of the Senior Foreign Service, Class of Minister - Counselor, Ms. Pasini has been an American diplomat since 1997.

Ms. Pasini previously served as the Director of Public and Congressional Affairs in the Bureau of Consular Affairs from 2021-2023. Other Washington assignments have included positions in the Bureau of Consular Affairs, the Bureau of Western Hemisphere Affairs, the Office of Foreign Missions, and as a liaison to the Department of Homeland Security. She has also completed multiple overseas tours, including as Minister Counselor for Consular Affairs in Islamabad, Pakistan, and as the Consular Chief in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil and Belfast, Northern Ireland. Other tours included Mexico City and Kuwait.

A Maryland native, Ms. Pasini has a Ph.D. in Political Science from Indiana University, a master’s degree in National Security and Resource Strategy from the Eisenhower School, National Defense University, and an undergraduate degree from Mary Washington College.